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18 Jun

Selling Sex

Selling sex is not as easy as people think it is. It takes time, effort and focus. Whether you run the business as I do, based on internet marketing, search engine optimization and advertising, or more conventionally through personal networking and face to face sales, it still take more time and more hard work than people expect. That should not be a surprise. Building any successful business is always difficult and requires work and effort. They say that sex always sells. But so does food and grocers have to work hard to succeed and make money. So building a sex business is hard work.rear view through girls legs of woman kneeling down at bed

If you want to build a successful and profitable business, you will have to work hard. It will need focus, effort, time and investment. It does not matter what industry you are in. Representing Ibiza escorts is no different to any other industry or service. In any established industry you will have to fight against the competition. That might mean beating down the established competition and taking over their market share. If you are a true innovator and create a new service or product, you have to introduce and explain it to people and convince them to adopt it. And ultimately pay for it. And in either case you might want to attract investors.

Selling sex is like selling anything else. Yes, there will always be a demand for sex. But there will equally always be a demand for food, beverages and alcoholic drinks such as beer, spirits and wines. But that does not mean that the big businesses, multinationals and corporations involved in those industries do not have to work hard. It also does not mean that small upstart businesses cannot find a profitable way into the market. Craft brewers, specialist companies making niche vodkas and gins, new wine producers from areas that have not traditionally made wine. They all compete against each other, and for any of them to keep their market share or to gain market share and create their own market is hard and takes huge effort.

 

13 May

Swinger Sex Parties

People go to sex gatherings and swingers clubs for altogether different reasons. Some go to effectively engage in sexual relations with outsiders. Others go to have intercourse with individuals that they know, yet before other individuals. A couple of my companions go to sex parties just to attempt things that they don’t feel great attempting at home. One couple that I know truly get delight from observing each other engaging in sexual relations with outsiders. She watches one night while he engages in sexual relations, and after that next time he watches her have intercourse with other individuals. Others are perpetual free wheelers while their accomplices are changeless voyeurs.

rear view through girls legs of woman kneeling down at bedSex parties and the general population who come to them can shift hugely. Most are for couples who need to add greater energy to the sex with their accomplices by attempting various things with various individuals. Not those engage in sexual relations out in the open or with numerous accomplices. Some simply discover one individual that they need to engage in sexual relations with and retreat to a room or den and have at it, frequently with their accomplice somewhere else having intercourse with other people such as sexy Fuengirola escorts. That is the sort of sex play that can get dubious in light of the fact that it is simple for individuals to turned out to be sincerely required with one individual. In any case, where there is simply open screwing of heaps of various accomplices it is clearly absolutely physical.

Not all sex gatherings or swingers clubs are the equivalent. Some are for singles, or couple, or for a blend. Despite the fact that practically all farthest point the quantity of single men. A few gatherings are only for hetero sex. Others are for gay sex. Others are for a blend. At that sort of gathering, a few people who are hetero typically will take care of engage in sexual relations with individuals of a similar sex, or with heaps of individuals of both genders in the meantime. That does not really make them gay, or indiscriminate or confounded. It just methods implies they like sex and are available to testing. Also, there is nothing amiss with that.

I have been striving to consider whatever I like more than sex. However, I flopped, so I attempted rather to consider whatever I preferred as much as sex. In any case, I fizzled. Truth be told I couldn’t discover whatever even approached. I truly like sex. I worship it. It is the best thing in my life. What’s more, I have a decent life. There are heaps of beneficial things and great individuals and great encounters throughout my life. Yet, engaging in sexual relations is as yet the best and most agreeable movement in my life. Detached, dynamic, quick, moderate, I couldn’t care less. All sex is great. Indeed, even awful sex is great, as I would see it.

25 Nov

The Joys Of Exes

No that isn’t always a typing mistake. I normally write articles about intercourse, prostitution, whores, shagging, BDSM, porn, and fashionable smut. But in this particular article in place of writing approximately the joys of sex and nookie, I want as a substitute to write about the fun of ex. By which I suggest the amusing and excitement of having collectively with an vintage boyfriend or girlfriend, locating out if the vintage fee, enchantment and sexual frisson remains there. And then, of path, in case you do nonetheless fancy the pants off every other, fucking their brains out and seeing the way it is going.

What made me reflect on this turned into that I bumped into an vintage boyfriend recently. Almost literally bumped into him sincerely. We had been each trying to get to a train to Leeds from London and noticed every different throughout the platform. We both sort of regarded every different but have been now not certain and then we ended up sat in the identical carriage which gave us the chance to be certain. Being a chatty and confident kind of Tenerife escort it turned into me who walked as much as him and popped the question, and positive enough it was a guy who I dated for 6 months in my early twenties and with whom I then used to have occasional and remarkable hook up intercourse with for about a decade later on however we had been out of touch for years.escort in towel studying on tablet

We did the usual getting back to recognise you sort of query and answer stuff after the Oh My God How Have You Been? Stage. He is an accountant for a big auditing company – nicely he is a associate there – and does lots of travelling. Then he requested me what I do for a living – other than being stunning of route – little bit of a charmer this one. And for the reason that I decided long in the past now not to bullshit each person approximately anything I told him. “I run some of the biggest escort businesses in Europe and I spent ten years as a professional Dominatrix after some years running as a excessive elegance escort and having intercourse for money with as many men as I ought to for as a good deal money as I could.” Kill or remedy I notion. He will both run a mile or be cool approximately it.

“And how was the intercourse normally? Anything like as accurate as we used to have?” he requested. So that took care of the question of whether he became going to be cool about it or no longer. Needless to mention about 5 mins later we joined the 4 toes excessive club as we had been having very uncomfortable and frantic sex inside the bathroom of the primary magnificence compartment. Yeah, I recognize, slut and man-slut. But it turned into amusing and made us both happy so what the hell.

18 Oct

What Do Escorts Want?

As you would expect from someone who designs escort agency web sites, runs escort agencies and who used to work as a professional dominatrix, I know quite a few people in the escort industry! Not all of my friends are directly involved in the sex business, but many of them are. And one of the constants for my friends and I is that we are asked the same questions over and over again by friends, family and acquaintances who are not in the industry. Everyone seems to be fascinated by the sex industry, escorts and escort agencies; even those who say that they have negative views, actively disapprove or wvho would choose to ban the industry – good luck with that by the way, no one has ever succeeded they have just made it more dangerous for the women working in it.

One of the most common questions – once you are past the annoying bullshit about people trafficking – is “what do escorts want from their clients?”. The obvious and sarcastic answer is “a gentle and generous millionaire with premature ejaculation” but the real answer for the girls who work with Barbies Babes Escorts Manchester is a little more complicated. Actually, that is not quite right. A gentle and generous millionaire with premature ejaculation is not a bad start. In fact, now that I think about it more it actually captures all three of the elements that most escorts are really looking for from an ideal client.

To simplify it a little, what most escorts are looking for is a gentleman who wants to treat them like a lady. They do not need dinner and flowers or perfume, though of course they will happily receive gifts with great delight! But what they do want is to be treated with respect and decency. Yes, clients are paying them (mainly) for sex. But they are not paid to be treated like filth. And while most escort girls are happy enough with taking part in a session of prolonged rough sex if they know about it advance, they are not up for providing a full porn star experience without notice.

Talk to an escort girl and tell her what you want. And if you really want to get the best from your time together, ask them what they want too. If they think you are sincere about the question, they will tell you and, like with any woman, when you give her what she wants you will get a lot more from her and have a far better time!

12 Apr

Escorts And Drugs

There are some really good parts to working with some of the best escort agencies in the world, including those in Ibiza including the Ibiza Beauties from The Ibiza Escort Agency. The end of season parties are a bit special for one thing, and it is interesting that my work “forces” me to spend time with some of the most sexy, most beautiful and most desirable women in the world. Poor me. It really is amazing what you can earn money doing if you are lucky enough or creative enough.

escort wearing white string bikini lying on side on bedOne other thing that makes it fun are the stories; most of which I could not possibly share for reasons of confidentiality. Client confidentiality is critical when working with high-class escort agencies and anything that could identify a client is strictly forbidden. Quite rightly and for obvious reasons. Equally, good escort agencies are very protective of the identities of their escorts, even when they are “out there” public figures such as porn stars, glamour models and Playboy centre folds.

So I cannot share any client stories with you, but I can give you a couple of examples of how challenging it can be working in the high-speed world of an escort agency in a town such as Ibiza, where 90% of the business takes place between the start of may and the end of September. That means that during the summer season everything is accelerated, including peoples expectations.

It is also exacerbated by the presence of illicit substances such as cocaine. In Ibiza cocaine is pretty much ubiquitous. You can not walk more than twenty yards down the road in Playa Dén Bossa during the summer without some very polite drug dealer hitting you up and offering a whole buffet of narcotics. So if you are the type of high roller that can afford expensive top of the line call girls then getting high quality drugs is easy. And along with the apparently pleasant effects of that drug – I am not able to attest to those as I do not use and have never used any kind of drug – one of the negative effects is a combination of paranoia and altered perception of time. Which, along with the enormous ego boost, mean that clients are basically screaming down the phone every thirty seconds saying “Where is she? Where is she? Where is she?”

12 Apr

Marketing Beauty And Sexiness

In my work as a marketer, am I willing to take advantage of the beauty bias and the positive qualities that people expect from people who are attractive? Of course I do. Why would you even ask? I am helping my clients sell the the time and companionship of beautiful women. And even when a man is just looking to be entertained for an hour, rather than looking for a companion overnight or longer, you would be amazed just how many men want to spend time with a woman who is interesting, fun and intelligent; not just someone who looks blindingly hot in Agent Provocateur!

vOne thing that is fortunate for my escort agency clients, though, is the simple fact that when a woman is beautiful and has sex appeal, she is perceived to also have other positive traits such as intelligence and charm – until she proves otherwise! Which means that though a client might ask whether an escort is funny and fun, they have already decided based on just looks that those traits must already be there. Which is why the really clever agencies such as Marbella Beauties have their escorts fully clothed in some of their photo shoots as well as the ubiquitous lingerie shots. It covers the angles and approaches every type of client.

It is amazing how easy it is to manipulate people´s perceptions, especially men’s and especially when it comes to men and sex. It is so straight forward to shift perception and belief just through changing the visuals, even in a simple way. The cliché of a woman taking off her glasses, taking a hair grip out of her hair and shaking it lose to produce the exclamation “why, miss Jones, you are so beautiful!” is not actually that far off the mark, to be honest. All you have to do is put a little black dress on over the black lace lingerie and she will become more intelligent and sophisticated. I despair sometimes.

So what is the bottom line? Just because a woman is wearing a simple knee length black dress and black patent heels does not mean that she is classy and intelligent. But it does mean that men will think she is unless she goes out of her way to disabuse them!

01 Apr

The Global Melting Pot Of Sex

Successful escort agency firms such as 2nd Circle Escorts Madrid do not just represent latin chicas or Scandinavian ice-queens. They will also represent women of every race and physical type. It has to be said, though that, political correctness having little part in a hard-nosed commercial industry, there is in reality little call for a BBW, – Big Beautiful Woman. It would be nice to say that larger and more curvaceous Rubenesque woman can attract clients with their curves, great skin, charm and looks. But in reality, they are effectively a niche fetish. I wish it were not so, but that is the way it is in the reality based community in which escort agencies work. But blondes, redheads, brunettes. Petite or tall, skinny or Amazonian, curvy or athletic, fashion-model slim or glamour-model busty, I can guarantee a good market for any and all of those women.

two escort girls in bedroom one on bed wearing silk blindfols other with back to camera wearing black g-stringLikewise, the clients of escort firm in Europe, and especially in cosmopolitan capital cities such as Madrid, come from every part of the world (pun intended). Obviously there are a lot of Brits and Irish clients for a firm such as 2nd Circle Madrid, which is owned and run by native English speaking Brits. But they also attract clients from Canada, the United States, Mexico and various latin American countries. Clearly the main bulk of clients throughout the year are from Northern Europe; countries such as France, Belgium, the Netherlands, Denmark, Sweden, Norway, Finland, Germany.

Increasingly Eastern European men and couples are a major market for them, including visitors and new Spanish residents from countries such as Russia, Ukraine, Poland, Hungary, the Czech Republic, Latvia and Estonia. And in the summer (though less and less each year) the Arab and North African clients contribute a huge financial hit to the Madrid economy and firms such as 2nd Circle Escort as they come to Spain for cool weather (!), good shopping and easy morals. Visitors include men from Morocco, Algeria, Tunisia, Egypt, Lebanon, Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, Dubai, Doha and Qatar. There are even a few visitors from Asia and Australasia every year for various reasons.

But wherever they come from, the philosophy of a good Madrid escort agency will be the same as that of the Hard Rock Cafe. “Love All, Serve All”.

01 Apr

There Is An App For That

I heard a funny story the other day from one of the drivers for Allys Angels working in Ibiza transporting escort girls and clients. He had been off visiting one of the very high-end hotels around Ibiza to take credit card payments from a client who was meeting three girls at a time, for twelve hours at a time, and had been rotating through them for a few days with remarkable stamina and an apparently limitless credit card.

escort girl using tablet computerThis driver is not the usual meat head that people expect. He has run a lot of businesses in the past and has a background in marketing for many years after his time in the British armed services. And all of this before working for Allys Angels. Anyway, as theses things go he was invited to sit down and have a chat and a sandwich with the client (who probably just needed to speak with someone with a Y chromosome) the client started discussing the sleek Point Of Sale (POS) machine that was in use and got very enthusiastic about an app that someone should develop that allows clients to spend time with a beautiful woman without having to directly use a credit card. Everything could be paid directly through the app. Like Uber.

The driver was nodding and agreeing and making a joke about names; “Shagger? Groper? Girl-u-Like?” when the client suddenly got a serious look on his face and looked slightly offended. Never good, so my friend was about to make his excuses and leave, when the client started explaining that yes he was in Marbella on holiday but actually he was a tech investor and had had an early stage investment role in a few quite well known companies…Tumblr, Timder, Twitter, Uber … and then gave him his business card.

And yes, everything he said about his background is true. And he has been back in touch since discussing using my friend, as well as both Allys Angels and Ibiza Beauties as technical consultants. So maybe in just a short while there really will be an app for everything including, the words of Tom Cruise playing Joel Goodsen in Risky Business “human fulfillment”.

25 Jan

Sex Workers Get A Lot Of Down Time

Being mainly based in Marbella and Malaga, my business has a strong seasonal element to it. It is not like Ibiza which is absolutely dead in the winter and bouncing non-stop from June to October. Nor is it like my old stomping ground in the West End of London, which is busy one way or another pretty much twelve months round. But Marbella and Malaga are about three times busier in the summer than the winter and the type of clients varies a lot. Lots of young guys, tourists and middle eastern clients in the summer. Mainly locals, business visitors, cruise ship passengers and golfers from northern Europe during the winter. Which brings me to the point I was going to make – depending on the season and where they are based – or if they are like surfers following the waves and move from place to place on tour – sex workers can have a lot of time on their hands. As opposed to spending time on their backs, or other peoples back in my case, or whatever, I guess.

escort in towel studying on tabletSo, in my case I am so busy it is insane during the summer and I spend a lot of time during the summer binging on TV programmes, films and books that I had no chance to see or read over the summer. And I also have a small personal quirk during the summer, when the down times are brief but I have to stay awake. Being who I am, I keep my focus and attention by taking online courses for fun – do not judge, it is better than using drugs or caffeine! And I have actually managed to pass the idea onto a few other friends of mine in the sex business locally. With the result that lots of prostitutes in Malaga and Marbella are hitting the internet and learning stuff or getting qualifications when they are not with clients dispensing blow jobs.

So imagine my delight when I went to the cinema last week and saw “Molly’s Game” starring Jessica Chastain and Idris Elba, written and directed by Aaron Sorkin. The eponymous heroine spends her time at the poker games that she runs for high rollers doing exactly the same as me. Except that she is high, so she mentions to her lawyer at one point that she is only twelve credits from a degree in astronomy – even though she does not remember enrolling. I can sympathise.

18 Jan

Being An Escort Is Not For Everyone

I know that working as an escort is not for anyone. But it does not have anything to do with the market and whether the woman can make money or not. Age is not an obstacle; lots of mature escorts make more than me. Race is completely incidental; either no-one cares, or it can earn a premium as a “speciality”. Size is no problem. In fact, it can be an opportunity as BBW (Big Beautiful Women) is a very successful niche. Big boobs or small boobs, no issue. Red haired, blonde, brunette, whatever; clients will go for you. Muscle girl or the only exercise you get is lifting a glass; that is fine. Six foot tall or four foot six; you will make money easily. Tattoos might not be everyone’s taste, but lots of men love them. If you do not speak the language of where you are living or your clients? There is always the international language of love! What kind of woman you are physically is pretty much irrelevant.

MelaniaBut what does matter, what is critical to whether being an escort is for you or not, is what is between your ears. Like it or not, some people have greater or different moral, ethical, emotional and psychological attachment to sex than other people do. I know lots of girls who will very happily shag a guys brains out after meeting him only an hour before, who could not handle the idea of working as an escort. I also know women who are totally monogamous and who have had only one or two lovers in their private life; but they are successful and happy as professional prostitutes. Some women know that they cannot handle it and will never try. Others think they will be fine with it but find that they can not deal with it after their first client booking.

I have never really found any common link or predictor as to who will be happy as an escort and who will not. Religion, sexual history, age, even vegan or carnivore do not seem to make a difference. It is all about the money. The first time you explicitly take cash from a guy in direct exchange for sex, it is different to anything else. Some women freak, some women get a huge sense of power from it, others see it as no different from working in an office or factory (I am one of those) but it is totally impossible to predict.