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18 Jun

Selling Sex

Selling sex is not as easy as people think it is. It takes time, effort and focus. Whether you run the business as I do, based on internet marketing, search engine optimization and advertising, or more conventionally through personal networking and face to face sales, it still take more time and more hard work than people expect. That should not be a surprise. Building any successful business is always difficult and requires work and effort. They say that sex always sells. But so does food and grocers have to work hard to succeed and make money. So building a sex business is hard work.rear view through girls legs of woman kneeling down at bed

If you want to build a successful and profitable business, you will have to work hard. It will need focus, effort, time and investment. It does not matter what industry you are in. Representing Ibiza escorts is no different to any other industry or service. In any established industry you will have to fight against the competition. That might mean beating down the established competition and taking over their market share. If you are a true innovator and create a new service or product, you have to introduce and explain it to people and convince them to adopt it. And ultimately pay for it. And in either case you might want to attract investors.

Selling sex is like selling anything else. Yes, there will always be a demand for sex. But there will equally always be a demand for food, beverages and alcoholic drinks such as beer, spirits and wines. But that does not mean that the big businesses, multinationals and corporations involved in those industries do not have to work hard. It also does not mean that small upstart businesses cannot find a profitable way into the market. Craft brewers, specialist companies making niche vodkas and gins, new wine producers from areas that have not traditionally made wine. They all compete against each other, and for any of them to keep their market share or to gain market share and create their own market is hard and takes huge effort.

 

13 May

Swinger Sex Parties

People go to sex gatherings and swingers clubs for altogether different reasons. Some go to effectively engage in sexual relations with outsiders. Others go to have intercourse with individuals that they know, yet before other individuals. A couple of my companions go to sex parties just to attempt things that they don’t feel great attempting at home. One couple that I know truly get delight from observing each other engaging in sexual relations with outsiders. She watches one night while he engages in sexual relations, and after that next time he watches her have intercourse with other individuals. Others are perpetual free wheelers while their accomplices are changeless voyeurs.

rear view through girls legs of woman kneeling down at bedSex parties and the general population who come to them can shift hugely. Most are for couples who need to add greater energy to the sex with their accomplices by attempting various things with various individuals. Not those engage in sexual relations out in the open or with numerous accomplices. Some simply discover one individual that they need to engage in sexual relations with and retreat to a room or den and have at it, frequently with their accomplice somewhere else having intercourse with other people such as sexy Fuengirola escorts. That is the sort of sex play that can get dubious in light of the fact that it is simple for individuals to turned out to be sincerely required with one individual. In any case, where there is simply open screwing of heaps of various accomplices it is clearly absolutely physical.

Not all sex gatherings or swingers clubs are the equivalent. Some are for singles, or couple, or for a blend. Despite the fact that practically all farthest point the quantity of single men. A few gatherings are only for hetero sex. Others are for gay sex. Others are for a blend. At that sort of gathering, a few people who are hetero typically will take care of engage in sexual relations with individuals of a similar sex, or with heaps of individuals of both genders in the meantime. That does not really make them gay, or indiscriminate or confounded. It just methods implies they like sex and are available to testing. Also, there is nothing amiss with that.

I have been striving to consider whatever I like more than sex. However, I flopped, so I attempted rather to consider whatever I preferred as much as sex. In any case, I fizzled. Truth be told I couldn’t discover whatever even approached. I truly like sex. I worship it. It is the best thing in my life. What’s more, I have a decent life. There are heaps of beneficial things and great individuals and great encounters throughout my life. Yet, engaging in sexual relations is as yet the best and most agreeable movement in my life. Detached, dynamic, quick, moderate, I couldn’t care less. All sex is great. Indeed, even awful sex is great, as I would see it.

14 Dec

The Good Old Days Of Style

Some time ago, American massage parlors used to be islands of imagination. Wonderful, rich, beguiling. They were noteworthy and they were gone to for the sexual administrations on offer as well as for the amusement on offer, the atmosphere and the vibe of the place. They were the VIP regions of dance club before dance club were created and back when the term Big cheese implied an option that is other than “has enough cash to pay for access”. One serious parcel of the diversion that we underestimate presently began in the Victorian and Edwardian time sex clubs and places of sick (brilliant?) notoriety.tumblr_nwac3yIwqD1uwo5odo1_500

Massage parlors in New Orleans and the southern conditions of the Unified States conceived an offspring first to cloth time and afterward to the immediate relative, jazz. Also, where might our advanced stimulation scene be currently if jazz had not been concocted? No swing, shake and move, pop, hip jump, move music…the list is relatively interminable even outside of such a straight line. A significant number of the most celebrated jazz performers began their professions playing in houses of ill-repute, engaging whores and their customers. I guess that these days they would be playing for the entertainment of the very finest Benidorm escort agency and their clients. But their modern equivalents just do not have the panache or style, in my opinion.

In the nineteenth and mid twentieth century – truly until the point that the phone made escort administrations conceivable – on the off chance that you needed the organization of an explicitly freed lady and an air loaded up with sexual charge and sensuality, houses of ill-repute were the main decision except if you needed to visit road walkers.

Truth be toldtumblr_nwadixfb5k1tf2sb1o1_500, off color houses were the primary reason that sightseers used to visit New Orleans, back when jazz was new and bleeding edge. The Red Books used to be sold on road corners and had evaluations, audits and postings of the considerable number of houses of ill-repute and whores. I get it was fairly similar to a printed rendition of The Sensual Audit or Adultwork. Despite the fact that less shabby and harsh, I think. The houses themselves had unrecorded music – Louis Armstrong keeping you engaged while you picked which provocative lady to invest energy with – and were stunning. The Madams were prestigious for being inviting and enchant represented. Despite the fact that I presume that they had big brass balls simply like a cutting edge Madam requires.

In any case, go to a massage parlor today and it is all equitable excessively undesirable and bastard. Such a large number of the young ladies are scarcely above road level and it just feels terrible. There are striking exemptions, however nowadays escort offices completely have the favorable position in polish and class, however I wish we could bring back the vibe of the old New Orleans Red Book days.

13 Dec

Marilyn´s Sex Appeal

I have been starting late examining a couple of journals about Marilyn Monroe. I have in like manner been think the photographs of her that litter the web in a consistently extending number. Her life was thoroughly charming, elevating and positive in some way or another or another and a ghastly advised in others. Just for a moment I highlight the inspiring points of view.

She settled on the plain same choices that high class escorts working wherever on the planet do every day. The exchanging of youth, radiance and sex advance as a result of money is as old as humanity. It isn’t known as the most settled calling to no closure. Even now the most high class escort London can provide will still view Marilyn Monroe as an inspiration in both style and sex appeal. By the way, the second most prepared calling is warrior. People fuck and fight and have reliably been willing to pay people who indicate enhancement over the ordinary.il_570xN.1454447797_r9b5

There is no point reiterating the remarkable and overdone “Norma Jean Mortensen, then Baker…” account. Nor even to re-depict and achieve conclusions from the abuse she encountered her movement father and others that was extremely ordinary for young women in the midst of the twentieth century. I would lean toward not to depict the abuse and agonizing absence of commitment that she experienced from her reasonably wiped out mother. Those are out there for you to find. Most by far of them are not discussed and they are in general easy to find in a few books, articles and destinations for the people who are fascinated.

What I am continuously enlivened by is her perceptive choice to use her body, stand up to and physical credits to exceed expectations. At first she was fundamentally endeavoring to eat. While she was battling with countless young women endeavoring to break into Hollywood from showing in the late forties and mid fifties, Marilyn got herself entirely the circumstance of screwing for sustenance. The prominent exposed photos that at last transformed into the fundamental cover on the dispatch issue of Playboy magazine were done out of need. They were no negative goal like some huge name photos and sex tapes today. She was paid the august whole of $50 for the photo shoot and the greater part of that money was spent on sustenance and rent.

To be sure, even before she accomplished the tossing love situate sort out she expected to use men’s hankering for her in a to a great degree cognizant way to keep body and soul together. She was verifiably abused. Regardless, was she using the foreseen reaction of men to a face and body like hers to get what she required. Also, she was to an extraordinary degree incredible at it.

I am not saying that I am roused by Marilyn’s earnestness. What is moving is her fixation and cool looked toward confirmation. She was anxious to use what she expected to get what she required. Additionally, she finished the forte of being Marilyn the sex goddess a long time before Marilyn the on-screen character even existed.

25 Nov

The Joys Of Exes

No that isn’t always a typing mistake. I normally write articles about intercourse, prostitution, whores, shagging, BDSM, porn, and fashionable smut. But in this particular article in place of writing approximately the joys of sex and nookie, I want as a substitute to write about the fun of ex. By which I suggest the amusing and excitement of having collectively with an vintage boyfriend or girlfriend, locating out if the vintage fee, enchantment and sexual frisson remains there. And then, of path, in case you do nonetheless fancy the pants off every other, fucking their brains out and seeing the way it is going.

What made me reflect on this turned into that I bumped into an vintage boyfriend recently. Almost literally bumped into him sincerely. We had been each trying to get to a train to Leeds from London and noticed every different throughout the platform. We both sort of regarded every different but have been now not certain and then we ended up sat in the identical carriage which gave us the chance to be certain. Being a chatty and confident kind of Tenerife escort it turned into me who walked as much as him and popped the question, and positive enough it was a guy who I dated for 6 months in my early twenties and with whom I then used to have occasional and remarkable hook up intercourse with for about a decade later on however we had been out of touch for years.escort in towel studying on tablet

We did the usual getting back to recognise you sort of query and answer stuff after the Oh My God How Have You Been? Stage. He is an accountant for a big auditing company – nicely he is a associate there – and does lots of travelling. Then he requested me what I do for a living – other than being stunning of route – little bit of a charmer this one. And for the reason that I decided long in the past now not to bullshit each person approximately anything I told him. “I run some of the biggest escort businesses in Europe and I spent ten years as a professional Dominatrix after some years running as a excessive elegance escort and having intercourse for money with as many men as I ought to for as a good deal money as I could.” Kill or remedy I notion. He will both run a mile or be cool approximately it.

“And how was the intercourse normally? Anything like as accurate as we used to have?” he requested. So that took care of the question of whether he became going to be cool about it or no longer. Needless to mention about 5 mins later we joined the 4 toes excessive club as we had been having very uncomfortable and frantic sex inside the bathroom of the primary magnificence compartment. Yeah, I recognize, slut and man-slut. But it turned into amusing and made us both happy so what the hell.

18 Oct

What Do Escorts Want?

As you would expect from someone who designs escort agency web sites, runs escort agencies and who used to work as a professional dominatrix, I know quite a few people in the escort industry! Not all of my friends are directly involved in the sex business, but many of them are. And one of the constants for my friends and I is that we are asked the same questions over and over again by friends, family and acquaintances who are not in the industry. Everyone seems to be fascinated by the sex industry, escorts and escort agencies; even those who say that they have negative views, actively disapprove or wvho would choose to ban the industry – good luck with that by the way, no one has ever succeeded they have just made it more dangerous for the women working in it.

One of the most common questions – once you are past the annoying bullshit about people trafficking – is “what do escorts want from their clients?”. The obvious and sarcastic answer is “a gentle and generous millionaire with premature ejaculation” but the real answer for the girls who work with Barbies Babes Escorts Manchester is a little more complicated. Actually, that is not quite right. A gentle and generous millionaire with premature ejaculation is not a bad start. In fact, now that I think about it more it actually captures all three of the elements that most escorts are really looking for from an ideal client.

To simplify it a little, what most escorts are looking for is a gentleman who wants to treat them like a lady. They do not need dinner and flowers or perfume, though of course they will happily receive gifts with great delight! But what they do want is to be treated with respect and decency. Yes, clients are paying them (mainly) for sex. But they are not paid to be treated like filth. And while most escort girls are happy enough with taking part in a session of prolonged rough sex if they know about it advance, they are not up for providing a full porn star experience without notice.

Talk to an escort girl and tell her what you want. And if you really want to get the best from your time together, ask them what they want too. If they think you are sincere about the question, they will tell you and, like with any woman, when you give her what she wants you will get a lot more from her and have a far better time!

12 Apr

Escorts And Drugs

There are some really good parts to working with some of the best escort agencies in the world, including those in Ibiza including the Ibiza Beauties from The Ibiza Escort Agency. The end of season parties are a bit special for one thing, and it is interesting that my work “forces” me to spend time with some of the most sexy, most beautiful and most desirable women in the world. Poor me. It really is amazing what you can earn money doing if you are lucky enough or creative enough.

escort wearing white string bikini lying on side on bedOne other thing that makes it fun are the stories; most of which I could not possibly share for reasons of confidentiality. Client confidentiality is critical when working with high-class escort agencies and anything that could identify a client is strictly forbidden. Quite rightly and for obvious reasons. Equally, good escort agencies are very protective of the identities of their escorts, even when they are “out there” public figures such as porn stars, glamour models and Playboy centre folds.

So I cannot share any client stories with you, but I can give you a couple of examples of how challenging it can be working in the high-speed world of an escort agency in a town such as Ibiza, where 90% of the business takes place between the start of may and the end of September. That means that during the summer season everything is accelerated, including peoples expectations.

It is also exacerbated by the presence of illicit substances such as cocaine. In Ibiza cocaine is pretty much ubiquitous. You can not walk more than twenty yards down the road in Playa Dén Bossa during the summer without some very polite drug dealer hitting you up and offering a whole buffet of narcotics. So if you are the type of high roller that can afford expensive top of the line call girls then getting high quality drugs is easy. And along with the apparently pleasant effects of that drug – I am not able to attest to those as I do not use and have never used any kind of drug – one of the negative effects is a combination of paranoia and altered perception of time. Which, along with the enormous ego boost, mean that clients are basically screaming down the phone every thirty seconds saying “Where is she? Where is she? Where is she?”

12 Apr

Marketing Beauty And Sexiness

In my work as a marketer, am I willing to take advantage of the beauty bias and the positive qualities that people expect from people who are attractive? Of course I do. Why would you even ask? I am helping my clients sell the the time and companionship of beautiful women. And even when a man is just looking to be entertained for an hour, rather than looking for a companion overnight or longer, you would be amazed just how many men want to spend time with a woman who is interesting, fun and intelligent; not just someone who looks blindingly hot in Agent Provocateur!

vOne thing that is fortunate for my escort agency clients, though, is the simple fact that when a woman is beautiful and has sex appeal, she is perceived to also have other positive traits such as intelligence and charm – until she proves otherwise! Which means that though a client might ask whether an escort is funny and fun, they have already decided based on just looks that those traits must already be there. Which is why the really clever agencies such as Marbella Beauties have their escorts fully clothed in some of their photo shoots as well as the ubiquitous lingerie shots. It covers the angles and approaches every type of client.

It is amazing how easy it is to manipulate people´s perceptions, especially men’s and especially when it comes to men and sex. It is so straight forward to shift perception and belief just through changing the visuals, even in a simple way. The cliché of a woman taking off her glasses, taking a hair grip out of her hair and shaking it lose to produce the exclamation “why, miss Jones, you are so beautiful!” is not actually that far off the mark, to be honest. All you have to do is put a little black dress on over the black lace lingerie and she will become more intelligent and sophisticated. I despair sometimes.

So what is the bottom line? Just because a woman is wearing a simple knee length black dress and black patent heels does not mean that she is classy and intelligent. But it does mean that men will think she is unless she goes out of her way to disabuse them!

01 Apr

The Global Melting Pot Of Sex

Successful escort agency firms such as 2nd Circle Escorts Madrid do not just represent latin chicas or Scandinavian ice-queens. They will also represent women of every race and physical type. It has to be said, though that, political correctness having little part in a hard-nosed commercial industry, there is in reality little call for a BBW, – Big Beautiful Woman. It would be nice to say that larger and more curvaceous Rubenesque woman can attract clients with their curves, great skin, charm and looks. But in reality, they are effectively a niche fetish. I wish it were not so, but that is the way it is in the reality based community in which escort agencies work. But blondes, redheads, brunettes. Petite or tall, skinny or Amazonian, curvy or athletic, fashion-model slim or glamour-model busty, I can guarantee a good market for any and all of those women.

two escort girls in bedroom one on bed wearing silk blindfols other with back to camera wearing black g-stringLikewise, the clients of escort firm in Europe, and especially in cosmopolitan capital cities such as Madrid, come from every part of the world (pun intended). Obviously there are a lot of Brits and Irish clients for a firm such as 2nd Circle Madrid, which is owned and run by native English speaking Brits. But they also attract clients from Canada, the United States, Mexico and various latin American countries. Clearly the main bulk of clients throughout the year are from Northern Europe; countries such as France, Belgium, the Netherlands, Denmark, Sweden, Norway, Finland, Germany.

Increasingly Eastern European men and couples are a major market for them, including visitors and new Spanish residents from countries such as Russia, Ukraine, Poland, Hungary, the Czech Republic, Latvia and Estonia. And in the summer (though less and less each year) the Arab and North African clients contribute a huge financial hit to the Madrid economy and firms such as 2nd Circle Escort as they come to Spain for cool weather (!), good shopping and easy morals. Visitors include men from Morocco, Algeria, Tunisia, Egypt, Lebanon, Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, Dubai, Doha and Qatar. There are even a few visitors from Asia and Australasia every year for various reasons.

But wherever they come from, the philosophy of a good Madrid escort agency will be the same as that of the Hard Rock Cafe. “Love All, Serve All”.

01 Apr

There Is An App For That

I heard a funny story the other day from one of the drivers for Allys Angels working in Ibiza transporting escort girls and clients. He had been off visiting one of the very high-end hotels around Ibiza to take credit card payments from a client who was meeting three girls at a time, for twelve hours at a time, and had been rotating through them for a few days with remarkable stamina and an apparently limitless credit card.

escort girl using tablet computerThis driver is not the usual meat head that people expect. He has run a lot of businesses in the past and has a background in marketing for many years after his time in the British armed services. And all of this before working for Allys Angels. Anyway, as theses things go he was invited to sit down and have a chat and a sandwich with the client (who probably just needed to speak with someone with a Y chromosome) the client started discussing the sleek Point Of Sale (POS) machine that was in use and got very enthusiastic about an app that someone should develop that allows clients to spend time with a beautiful woman without having to directly use a credit card. Everything could be paid directly through the app. Like Uber.

The driver was nodding and agreeing and making a joke about names; “Shagger? Groper? Girl-u-Like?” when the client suddenly got a serious look on his face and looked slightly offended. Never good, so my friend was about to make his excuses and leave, when the client started explaining that yes he was in Marbella on holiday but actually he was a tech investor and had had an early stage investment role in a few quite well known companies…Tumblr, Timder, Twitter, Uber … and then gave him his business card.

And yes, everything he said about his background is true. And he has been back in touch since discussing using my friend, as well as both Allys Angels and Ibiza Beauties as technical consultants. So maybe in just a short while there really will be an app for everything including, the words of Tom Cruise playing Joel Goodsen in Risky Business “human fulfillment”.