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18 Oct

What Do Escorts Want?

As you would expect from someone who designs escort agency web sites, runs escort agencies and who used to work as a professional dominatrix, I know quite a few people in the escort industry! Not all of my friends are directly involved in the sex business, but many of them are. And one of the constants for my friends and I is that we are asked the same questions over and over again by friends, family and acquaintances who are not in the industry. Everyone seems to be fascinated by the sex industry, escorts and escort agencies; even those who say that they have negative views, actively disapprove or wvho would choose to ban the industry – good luck with that by the way, no one has ever succeeded they have just made it more dangerous for the women working in it.

One of the most common questions – once you are past the annoying bullshit about people trafficking – is “what do escorts want from their clients?”. The obvious and sarcastic answer is “a gentle and generous millionaire with premature ejaculation” but the real answer for the girls who work with Barbies Babes Escorts Manchester is a little more complicated. Actually, that is not quite right. A gentle and generous millionaire with premature ejaculation is not a bad start. In fact, now that I think about it more it actually captures all three of the elements that most escorts are really looking for from an ideal client.

To simplify it a little, what most escorts are looking for is a gentleman who wants to treat them like a lady. They do not need dinner and flowers or perfume, though of course they will happily receive gifts with great delight! But what they do want is to be treated with respect and decency. Yes, clients are paying them (mainly) for sex. But they are not paid to be treated like filth. And while most escort girls are happy enough with taking part in a session of prolonged rough sex if they know about it advance, they are not up for providing a full porn star experience without notice.

Talk to an escort girl and tell her what you want. And if you really want to get the best from your time together, ask them what they want too. If they think you are sincere about the question, they will tell you and, like with any woman, when you give her what she wants you will get a lot more from her and have a far better time!

01 Apr

There Is An App For That

I heard a funny story the other day from one of the drivers for Allys Angels working in Ibiza transporting escort girls and clients. He had been off visiting one of the very high-end hotels around Ibiza to take credit card payments from a client who was meeting three girls at a time, for twelve hours at a time, and had been rotating through them for a few days with remarkable stamina and an apparently limitless credit card.

escort girl using tablet computerThis driver is not the usual meat head that people expect. He has run a lot of businesses in the past and has a background in marketing for many years after his time in the British armed services. And all of this before working for Allys Angels. Anyway, as theses things go he was invited to sit down and have a chat and a sandwich with the client (who probably just needed to speak with someone with a Y chromosome) the client started discussing the sleek Point Of Sale (POS) machine that was in use and got very enthusiastic about an app that someone should develop that allows clients to spend time with a beautiful woman without having to directly use a credit card. Everything could be paid directly through the app. Like Uber.

The driver was nodding and agreeing and making a joke about names; “Shagger? Groper? Girl-u-Like?” when the client suddenly got a serious look on his face and looked slightly offended. Never good, so my friend was about to make his excuses and leave, when the client started explaining that yes he was in Marbella on holiday but actually he was a tech investor and had had an early stage investment role in a few quite well known companies…Tumblr, Timder, Twitter, Uber … and then gave him his business card.

And yes, everything he said about his background is true. And he has been back in touch since discussing using my friend, as well as both Allys Angels and Ibiza Beauties as technical consultants. So maybe in just a short while there really will be an app for everything including, the words of Tom Cruise playing Joel Goodsen in Risky Business “human fulfillment”.

18 Jan

Being An Escort Is Not For Everyone

I know that working as an escort is not for anyone. But it does not have anything to do with the market and whether the woman can make money or not. Age is not an obstacle; lots of mature escorts make more than me. Race is completely incidental; either no-one cares, or it can earn a premium as a “speciality”. Size is no problem. In fact, it can be an opportunity as BBW (Big Beautiful Women) is a very successful niche. Big boobs or small boobs, no issue. Red haired, blonde, brunette, whatever; clients will go for you. Muscle girl or the only exercise you get is lifting a glass; that is fine. Six foot tall or four foot six; you will make money easily. Tattoos might not be everyone’s taste, but lots of men love them. If you do not speak the language of where you are living or your clients? There is always the international language of love! What kind of woman you are physically is pretty much irrelevant.

MelaniaBut what does matter, what is critical to whether being an escort is for you or not, is what is between your ears. Like it or not, some people have greater or different moral, ethical, emotional and psychological attachment to sex than other people do. I know lots of girls who will very happily shag a guys brains out after meeting him only an hour before, who could not handle the idea of working as an escort. I also know women who are totally monogamous and who have had only one or two lovers in their private life; but they are successful and happy as professional prostitutes. Some women know that they cannot handle it and will never try. Others think they will be fine with it but find that they can not deal with it after their first client booking.

I have never really found any common link or predictor as to who will be happy as an escort and who will not. Religion, sexual history, age, even vegan or carnivore do not seem to make a difference. It is all about the money. The first time you explicitly take cash from a guy in direct exchange for sex, it is different to anything else. Some women freak, some women get a huge sense of power from it, others see it as no different from working in an office or factory (I am one of those) but it is totally impossible to predict.

21 Dec

Enter Mistress Rebecca

Steadily, smoothly with perfect posture she moved through the crowd toward the DJ booth. She walked with the confident stride of a catwalk model, one high heeled foot crossing in front of the other. It looked restrained but she was actually covering thr ground at quite a clip. She was not there to shake hands and back slap like a politician.

The crowd did not make a sound, but just parted almost serenely to allow she and I moved. Everyone looked at her and then briefly at me. Even the hottest and sexiest of the escorts and the most arrogant and wealthy looking of the guests. They looked at her with admiration and lust, and at me with vague inquisitiveness. I understood them wondering who I was and what I was doing with Mistress Rebecca.

steampunk corset escort gran canariaI did not look like a scary tough security guard. I was (and am) the grey man. That was (and is) my job. Mid grey linen suit in reasonably fashionable but not edgy style. Short but not aggressive hair, slightly above medium height. Fit looking but not hugely muscular or overly skinny. Tanned from my time around the haunts of the rich and famous. Eyes that were sometimes green and sometimes brown depending on how the light hit them steadily scoping everyone around us for potential threats. I also understood why they found it hard to take their eyes off the amazing, powerful and sexy woman ahead of me. She seemed to project sex and power through everything that she did, though she did not seem to do anything. Maybe it was better to say that she exuded sex from everything that she was.

Blonde hair with honey highlights cascading lose around her tanned shoulders. Which were well defined and exercised and nearly as broad as mine. I guessed swimmer or gymnast. (I later found that both were right, as was judo and karate fighter) Tonight her look was rather different to the sports wear she had on when I first met her. No Lycra or running shoes today.

Instead she wore a luminously white leather corset, cinched in to pronounce her already small waist even more. A floor length white leather skirt with slits from floor to the waistband. Through which slits showed her white high heeled thigh boots and about a mile and a half of bronzed, taut thigh that rippled as she strode. In her running shoes she was five feet seven inches. Tonight, she must have stood close to six feet, possibly a touch over. And she still moved with grace and athleticism.